emphathy... just how many ppl can do that? actually, i think, almost everybody can... everybody can put themselves in other ppl's shoes, everybody can know how the other is feeling... but, what they do in reaction, is another matter... some ppl will react by minding what the others will think... some will just go ahead with what they intend to do by ignoring other opinions... while some will just remain neutral... ... ... i see a lot of selfishness occuring all the time... ... ... just makes me sad.....